The short answer
How do you evaluate your discovery questions?
List every question you asked and mark whether it got one word, a longer answer or a real story. Find the question that produced the most detail, notice its shape (often a follow-up) and write two more like it.
Foreword
Why it matters
Question-asking, especially follow-up questions, makes conversations go better for both people1. Reviewing which of your questions actually produced understanding turns that finding into a habit you can check2.
Retrieval
61%
of a passage recalled a week later after three practice tests, against 40% after four readings3
What we’ll cover in this guide
- Part 01: List every question
- Part 02: Find the winner and copy it
- Your practice task: a short exercise to try with Selly
- Conclusion and what to practise next
Part 01: List every question
Go through the call and write down each question you asked, in order.
Getting the facts
Count them
Many sellers are surprised how few questions they asked, or how many were stacked into one breath.
Mark each one
Did it get a one-word answer, a longer answer or a story with detail?
Reflection questions and how to get started
- How many questions did you ask? Compare with how long you talked.
- Did you stack questions? Ask one at a time.
Part 02: Find the winner and copy it
The question that produced the best detail is your template.
Repeating what worked
Look at its shape
Was it about a real event? Did it follow something the buyer had just said? Most good questions are follow-ups.
Write two more like it
Use the same shape for other topics, then try them next time.
Reflection questions and how to get started
- Was your best question a follow-up? Plan more follow-ups.
- Which question would you drop? Replace it with one shaped like the winner.
Your practice task
- After a practice call with Selly, list every question you asked.
- Mark which ones produced a one-word answer, a longer answer or a story.
- Identify the question that produced the most detail and write two more with the same shape.
- Run the call again and use them.
Conclusion
The best question in a call is a template. Find it, notice why it worked, and build the next call around questions shaped like it.


